10 Easy Ways To Tell He’s Avoiding Commitment

Learn to recognize these red flags.

Many inquiries I get from women, particularly female clients, involve their confusion about whether or not the man they are seeing is serious about them. My belief is that if you are really that confused about someone’s intentions, then odds are your instincts are correct and they are probably not that serious.

But most of us have likely been in a situation where our emotions have muddled our perspective, and it’s a little more difficult to see the reality of the circumstances rather than what we want them to be.

In other words, being inside of a relationship can often blur your vision of the red flags others can see clearly.

For that reason I have compiled a list of red flags that I have recognized in these inquiries which, had they been seen earlier, could’ve saved many a heart from being broken.

1. He doesn’t plan ahead [with you].

As a man, I can tell you from experience that we know when we want to invest time into getting to know someone.

If a man is serious about you, he will want to know what you are doing next weekend. And the weekend after that. And for the holidays. And…well, you get the idea.