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10 Major Differences Between A “Nice Guy” And A “Good Man”
Nice guys finish last. Good men finish first.
We’ve all heard the adage that “nice guys finish last,” and to be honest, it’s usually true. But the big question is: Why?
I used to ask myself this a lot, because I was one of them.
I did everything I thought women (girls, at the time) would’ve wanted. I was respectable, and “nice,” and waited patiently for my “chance” to come along…just long enough for other guys to ask them out and miss that very chance…chances at dating, at opportunities, at career moves, at reaching life goals, in social situations…
Being a “nice guy” doesn’t just impact your dating success, it influences every other area of your life as well.
As I got older and learned the principles of attraction and social dynamics, all of my mistakes were glaring. If only I’d had the guidance to break free from the negative cycles back then.
When I learned how to be a good man rather than a nice guy, everything changed.
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