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10 Mindsets Of Highly Attractive Men
It’s not about looking different…it’s about THINKING different.
Men are more confused now than ever before when it comes to dating — and who can blame them? Men’s roles in virtually all areas of life are shifting, which presents some uncertainty.
In a world where women are outperforming and out-earning men more and more frequently, where is the value that men bring to their lives as a partner or spouse?
(Hint: There is plenty of it, since a man’s value is not rooted in his income level or “what” he provides…but “who” he is, and how he shows up for the people in his life).
This is what the world’s most attractive men understand — that being a great partner is multidimensional and is the result of a myriad of mindsets that create an identity that one can be proud of.
Let’s explore:
1: “I must respect myself before anyone else does.”
I have spent more than a decade publicly speaking and writing in an attempt to get men to respect and value women as equals in all areas of life. Heck, I’ve even gone onto television to speak out against toxic masculinity (not healthy masculinity).