10 Pieces Of Real Dating Advice That Actually Help You Find Love

For when you’re tired of caps-lock-click-bait.

In the 10+ years that I’ve been writing and coaching in the realm of dating and relationships, there is one thing that has bothered me more than anything else: The shouty, low-integrity, quick-fix types of advice that scream for your attention by using CAPS LOCK and “He/She will NEVER resist you IF YOU SAY THESE THINGS” types of headlines.

Listen, the truth is that dating is frustrating. Relationships are hard. There is no “easy fix” and there is no script you can follow, because humans are complex and nuanced creatures.

Sometimes, you feel as though the “right person” for you might not even exist. Or, you’re at least convinced that they must live on a different planet — or maybe just outside of your usual stomping grounds.

Anyone who’s ever worked with me as their coach knows that uncensored (but kind) honesty is at the core of my philosophy because I believe it’s the only way to create real and lasting results that aren’t based on false-hope or sales tactics.

Here’s the truth that most people don’t like to admit: If you’re not getting what you want out of life (or love), then the first step to getting there is taking a clear and honest look at what’s not…