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10 Red Flags That He’s NOT Interested

When he likes you…but doesn’t LIKE you, like you…

James Michael Sama
6 min readAug 31, 2022

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Have you ever stayed in a relationship or continued dating someone for longer than you should’ve? It’s a safe bet that at one point or another — we all have.

The question becomes, why?

For some, I believe they deeply want the relationship (or the person) to be something that it’s not.

For others, I think the answer is simpler: They simply don’t recognize (or subconsciously choose to ignore) the warning signs. I’ve seen both of these reasons (and many more) with my private clients over the years.

What then, should you take as a sign that he’s not interested in “more” with you?

1: He avoids talking about the future.

Men who are interested in a future with you — will envision a future with you. He’ll be talking about upcoming holidays, or family events, or considering booking travel for your cousin’s destination wedding 6 months from now.

Men who are hesitating about the long-term, or are simply not ready to make that sort of commitment, will conveniently avoid or change topics when talk about the future arises.

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

I help you evolve into the ultimate version of yourself. Life & Executive Coach. Multi #1 writer. Trusted by: CNN, CNBC, NY Post, CBS, more. Say hi! @JamesMSama

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