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10 Signals He’s Mature Enough For Real Love

It’s not a matter of age, it’s a matter of mindset.

James Michael Sama
6 min readJul 7, 2023

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As we grow through phases of life, priorities change, as does what we feel ready to step into.

We all become ready for different things at different times. A serious career, a serious relationship, or maybe even a family. It’s important to understand that there is no “right” or “wrong” path in life, but only what’s “right” or “wrong” for you.

For some men, myself included, we want to have a variety of experiences in order to define the life we want to live. It’s a process of figuring things out along the way, developing our own identity and purpose, carving our own path.

Oftentimes this is why my coaching students come to me — to help define this exact clarity needed to live the life that’s meant for them.

These experiences we compile in life bring us new perspectives and a level of maturity that allows us to show up the way we need to for a significant other — if that is part of the path we choose.

For men — I’ve found both through personal experience and discussions with students — some surefire signs in actions (not just words) that signal a readiness to become your teammate.

Here are 9 ways to know the guy you’re…

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

I help you evolve into the ultimate version of yourself. Life & Executive Coach. Multi #1 writer. Trusted by: CNN, CNBC, NY Post, CBS, more. Say hi! @JamesMSama

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