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10 Simple Tips For An Even Happier Relationship
Love requires daily mutual effort.
Who even has the time? You mutter to yourself as you read an endless stream of headlines online about romance, dating, chivalry, courtship…many of which, probably written by me over the years.
Whoopsie, no pressure.
Different types of advice apply to different people in different stages of life, but what about when you need some real, down-to-earth, practical tips on keeping the flame burning in your relationship or marriage over the long haul?
If that’s what you’re looking for, let’s begin.
1: Revisit your love languages together.
If you’re not familiar with Gary Chapman’s Five Love Languages, here is the rundown:
- Physical touch
- Words of affirmation
- Acts of service
- Gift giving
- Quality time
We all give and receive love in our own unique ways that can often be fit into these categories. It’s always a good idea to talk about your love languages early into a relationship, but as time goes on, it’s easy to lose sight of what exactly your partner craves and desires on a daily basis.