10 Steps To Attracting Real Love To Your Life

Better strategies bring better results.

We’re in the throes of the holiday season, which means that more people than usual are taking the time to reflect on how the past year has gone, and what hopes they’ve got for the year to come.

If “Finding love” is on your “to-do” list for 2023 (or the remainder of 2022), then it’s time to take a real look at the ways you can be more efficient with your time and energy — and stop giving it to the wrong people.

1: Get REALLY CLEAR on your wants vs. your needs.

These are two different things.

What is it that you really need from a partner?

I’m not talking about what you want, which is what most people focus on…

I’m talking about the deeper rooted needs tucked underneath those wants.

For example, one of my clients tells me that he wishes his wife would spend less time on her phone.

His want is less time on her phone.

His need is to connect with his wife. To feel seen, valued, present.

The clarity around the need can help find different ways to fill it — instead of just nagging her about getting off…