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10 Ways To Build A Deeper Connection With The Woman In Your Life

Real intimacy is emotional, not physical.

James Michael Sama
6 min readAug 5, 2021

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Life gets crazy sometimes, and it’s natural to get caught up in the day to day routines of a long commute, a constantly buzzing phone, and adulting obligations like paying the bills and household chores.

Often times a side effect of all this rushing around is that we stop putting the same effort into our relationships as we used to, which can cause a feeling of distance or disconnect.

At the start of any relationship, we go all in and put in maximum effort to earn someone’s trust and affection.

Commitment, though, is the time when the real effort needs to begin — not when it ends.

How do we work to maintain an even deeper connection with the woman we have chosen — and whom has chosen us, to be a partner in this life?

1. Make time for consistent date nights.

We never want our partner to feel overlooked or taken for granted, but that can be an unintentional result of a life built around work or other obligations. Weekends fly by, and we seem to be running on a hamster wheel with no time to slow down and enjoy the life we are building.

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

I help you evolve into the ultimate version of yourself. Life & Executive Coach. Multi #1 writer. Trusted by: CNN, CNBC, NY Post, CBS, more. Say hi! @JamesMSama

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