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10 Ways To Make A Woman Feel Truly Loved

The small things really do matter the most.

James Michael Sama
9 min readFeb 8, 2024

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I’ve always had one primary goal when it comes to a relationship — a goal that has multiplied ten fold now that I am married: Make my (now) wife feel as loved and happy as possible.

Does this mean that I am perfect and never make mistakes? HA! Ask her about that one.

What it does mean is that I do my best to correct mistakes that I do make, and spend the rest of the time striving to make sure she “feels the love.”

1: See her for who she really is.

She has gone her entire life being compared to (and comparing herself to) other people. Whether it’s her appearance, or level of success, or feeling pressured to get married, or start a family…women face an immense amount of pressure and judgment from the world around them.

This is one of the many areas where you must show her that those things don’t reflect who she is at the core. Her values, beliefs, her moral code…the things she holds dear to her heart.

She’s wishing that someone is going to see through the fog and not care about that crooked tooth, or her hair being thinner than she’d like, or that she’s already past the age when she thought she’d be married…

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

I help you evolve into the ultimate version of yourself. Life & Executive Coach. Multi #1 writer. Trusted by: CNN, CNBC, NY Post, CBS, more. Say hi! @JamesMSama

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