Member-only story
10 Ways To Show Her You’re (Actually) Different Than Other Guys
Actions speak louder than words.
The fact of the matter is that actions really do speak louder than words. A woman will never believe you if you tell her you are different than the guys who have disappointed her in the past, you have to show her. And not just once, but consistently over time.
Trust is not handed over to you, it has to be earned and then it has to be kept.
Given the current state of dating and the level of effort (or lack thereof) that many men put into courtship, here are a few things you can do to show a woman you are serious about her.
1: Pay attention to detail.
This is a recurring point in some of my articles because it is equally important as it is overlooked. Men are notorious for forgetting little details (hence us always being the butt of jokes on TV and commercials about forgetting a birthday or anniversary). We generally get a bad rap for selective listening or not listening at all.
If you want to show her you are really paying attention to her, out effort into active listening. Pay attention, ask follow up questions, remember details.