10 Ways to Stop Being the Nice Guy who Finishes Last

It’s not the “nice guy” who finishes last. It’s the pushover.

1: Reframe what it means to be “nice.”

2: Get clear on who you are as a man.

3: Become more direct in your communication.

4: Go get rejected more often.

5: Fix your posture.

6: Get on a fitness routine.

7: Pick up a hobby (or two).

8: Focus on your own sh*t.

9: Understand your value comes from within.

10: Break patterns of negative self-talk.

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