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12 Important Questions About Your New Love Interest

The sooner you have the answers, the better.

James Michael Sama
11 min readNov 22, 2022

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You’ve met someone new, congratulations! It’s always an exciting time, one full of passion, adventures, fun dates, and visions of the future together.

So exciting, that sometimes we can get caught up in the emotion of it all, and forget to ask ourselves the real important questions about this new person and how good of a fit they really are for us.

Let me first say that this article is not designed to take the wind out of your sails, or to stifle your excitement. Just the opposite, actually.

It’s written to help you cut through the noise around you and get answers to the questions you need to know before committing to someone.

Then, once you have them, you can fully immerse yourself in the joy of it all.

1: What did their life look like before me?

Here’s an important truth: Patterns don’t lie.

Sure, someone can change. We all grow and evolve and develop over time (hopefully). However, the way someone has chosen to live their life for the decades before they met you is going to tell you a lot about them.

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

I help you evolve into the ultimate version of yourself. Life & Executive Coach. Multi #1 writer. Trusted by: CNN, CNBC, NY Post, CBS, more. Say hi! @JamesMSama

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