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12 Signs Of True Long-Term Compatibility
You’re both good, but are you good FOR each other?
One of the most difficult relationship lessons that we can learn is that you can have two good people who aren’t good for each other.
I hear every reason in the book from my clients about why they held on to the wrong person for too long.
Just this week a client told me that her ex was great with his son, which enhanced her respect for him.
While it is infinitely important to be a good parent, I reminded her that him being a good father doesn’t automatically make him a good husband.
So, how then, do you know that you and your partner aren’t just good separately, but good together?
Here are 12 signals to watch for:
1: You feel a sense of peace.
I’m starting with this point because I believe it is tragically overlooked. I talk a lot in my articles about passion, and adventure, and intimacy, and excitement in your relationship…but what is (sometimes) even more important is a sense of peace around your partner.
What does this mean, exactly?
It means that being around your love is calm and certain. You don’t feel anxiety, or stress, or tension when…