12 Signs You’ve (Finally) Found A Guy Who’s Different Than The Rest

Many say it…few actually show it.

James Michael Sama
13 min readDec 15, 2023

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So, you’ve met a new guy. Yay! You’re excited and hopeful, but you’ve been down this road before…a guy tells you that he’s not the same as all of the other guys you’ve dated in the past, but at the end of the day, he ends up repeating the same patterns and you leave disappointed and disillusioned. Is there anyone out there who’s actually different?

We all know the truth that “actions speak louder than words,” but sometimes, when emotions are running high, it’s difficult to see a person for what they’re showing us rather than what they’re telling us…especially when it’s what we want to hear.

So, let’s talk about things that men who are built differently will do differently…no fluff, just real actions.

1: He’s direct about his intentions from the beginning.

One of the items highest up on women’s wish lists when it comes to dating is that they just wish men would be honest about what they do (or don’t) want when it comes to dating.

This is, after all, one of the primary causes of the situation described in the introduction: A guy will say one thing, but mean something completely different. Or, he’ll talk a big game…

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

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