12 Ways To Tell She’s Truly Happy With You

…and not just staying because it’s “convenient.”

James Michael Sama
7 min readDec 29, 2021

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Gentlemen,

It has been a longstanding belief of mine that those of us who choose to be in a relationship should strive every single day to make the woman in our lives as happy as possible.

We should make her feel valued, appreciated, loved, desired, and respected. Like men, though, some women are harder to read than others. Similarly, some men have a harder time reading the signs than others, as well.

For that reason, I’ve compiled below a list of signs that she’s actually happy with you and isn’t just staying out of comfort or convenience.

1: She complains to you.

Didn’t see this one coming? That’s the point.

When a woman “complains” to you, it doesn’t just mean that she’s using you as a sounding board — it means that she trusts you enough to reveal her personal challenges and frustrations to you.

Trust is a key building block of every healthy relationship. Without it, love cannot grow. Respect cannot exist. True commitment cannot be honored.

When she “complains” to you, she’s sending the message that she is willing to confide in you — even if she’s not looking for an…

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James Michael Sama

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