15 Common Insecurities Men Never Talk About

What’s he REALLY thinking?

The world that exists inside the male mind is often a mystery to most women (and sometimes to the men themselves). Not only are our brains biologically structured differently, but, well, men just don’t usually talk about how they’re actually feeling.

For the sake of this article, I’m diving deeper into the subconscious and sometimes involuntary thoughts that permeate our minds. Some are confident and triumphant. Others remain hidden because we are embarrassed by them or think your opinion of us would change if you found out.

However, I believe that mutual understanding between men and women leads to happier and healthier relationships (obviously), so, helping to shed some light on the inner workings of the male mind is, one could argue, an act of public service (you’re welcome).

(Related reading: 15 Things She Wonders When She Meets You)

Before we take this deep dive, I want to make something clear:

Nobody, under any circumstance, is trying to throw a “pity party” for men in this article. Nor is anyone trying to say women don’t face similar or worse insecurities, or that the plight of the woman is any less important simply because we are talking about men for…