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15 Signs He Deserves Your Love

Stop giving your heart to people who haven’t earned it.

James Michael Sama
6 min readSep 20, 2021

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Love, trust, and respect are not things to be handed over freely. They are some of our most valuable gifts to give, and therefore must be presented to a deserving recipient.

Someone who is serious about building a relationship with you, and puts in the effort to earn your love and affection (as you do for them in return).

The following are 15 real signs to look for when you are dating someone. Does he fit the bill?

1: He will invite you on a proper date.

None of this “Hey, I’m out with some friends, wanna meet up?” before he gets to know you nonsense. If a man wants to get to know you, he will put in the time and the effort to spend time one-on-one with you, and see what you are all about.

If he’s always trying to fit you into his pre-existing plans and you feel like the text he sent could have gone to 10 other women at the same time, he’s just not that into you.

2: He is willing to express himself.

It is difficult for a relationship to grow and mature if both partners aren’t able to effectively express themselves and their wants or needs. Open communication between you…

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

I help you evolve into the ultimate version of yourself. Life & Executive Coach. Multi #1 writer. Trusted by: CNN, CNBC, NY Post, CBS, more. Say hi! @JamesMSama

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