15 Things A Woman Wonders When She Meets You

A peek inside the female mind.

Sometimes as men, it’s difficult for us to step outside of our own perspectives in order to understand what women truly value, want, and need from a life partner.

We do, after all, think differently, which presents challenges when we’re attempting to understand a woman’s thought process by looking through our own lens.

Do we have the qualities that women are actually looking for?

What we see on social media and in pop culture (seems to) mold this answer for us. TV shows and movies show guys with money, power, and chiseled jawlines getting the attention while the ‘normal’ everyday Joe sits at home and longs for the day when a woman will say yes to a date.

We scroll endlessly through Instagram reels of fitness influencers and exotic cars and wonder: Why can’t I look/be/act/think like that guy?

Don’t get me wrong, it is important to strive for success (whatever that means for you) and maintain your physical and emotional health. These things are not only attractive, they are necessary for you to feel fulfilled and happy in life.

But, they do not guarantee you’re actually a good person or a good romantic partner.