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15 Traits Of The Man You Should Marry

“What’s this made of?” “Husband Material.”

James Michael Sama
12 min readJul 13, 2023

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There’s quite a large gentleman at the gym I go to. By quite large, I mean that he’s literally over 7 feet tall and towers over the general population. A monster of a man, impossible to miss.

He is full of tattoos, a menacing look at times, and is shockingly agile for someone of his size. If you’ve never seen a 7-foot man do calisthenics, it’s quite intriguing to watch.

As I frequently do, I found myself eventually talking to him and getting to know him. He is incredibly well spoken and articulate. Also, wise, if I can judge that off of his Instagram posts. Literal physical proof that you can’t judge a book by its cover.

After Rachel and I got married last year, he sent me a voice message. He confessed that, at times, it makes him wonder what it takes to get a woman to consider a lifelong commitment with a man.

We all know that dating is challenging and at times, seemingly hopeless — but, that’s just an illusion.

There is always hope, however, relationships take a deeper understanding of ourselves and others in order to flourish and succeed.

In a world full of confusion and misdirection, I do believe there are some pillars that remain true — certain things…

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James Michael Sama

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