20 Lessons For Men Who Want To Understand Women

Let’s have a guy-to-guy chat.

James Michael Sama
16 min readOct 24, 2024

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Imagine, for a moment, the world we would live in if men and women had a deeper understanding of each other’s thoughts, feelings, tendencies, and perspectives. While, of course, the world’s 8 billion people each hold an individual set of traits and personalities, that doesn’t mean we can’t find some common truths that apply on a larger scale.

I believe that all relationships, be it intimate, friendships, professional, or otherwise — can benefit from a deeper understanding of those we are relating to.

Silly? Obvious? Goes without saying?

One would think, until one considers just how much time and effort we put into actually learning about each other.

More often than not, the answer is “close to zero.” So, the misunderstandings perpetuate themselves.

Below, you’ll find 20 truths that I, a heterosexual married man, have learned and accumulated over the years through a vast array of experiences, and have heard directly from readers and private coaching clients.

Gentlemen — I believe that if you’re willing to open your mind to these lessons, it’ll help you better navigate the world around you with a deeper understanding and knowledge of the people you’re engaging with…

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

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