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5 Habits Of Highly Secure People
Comparison is the thief of joy.
You find yourself constantly bombarded by images and videos of people that seem to have it all together. They’re in amazing shape. They’re making a ton of money. They’re in amazing relationships. Their kids are perfect. They’re traveling the world. They are living the life that you secretly wish you were immersed in…
It seems as though we’re watching a highly curated television show rather than people’s real lives.
Spoiler alert: That’s because we are.
What you see on the internet is, well, exactly what the people posting it want you to see.
Now, of course, there are people who are living incredible lives, who are happy and fulfilled, who are thriving in their career and have happy and healthy families.
That doesn’t mean, however, they are free of all challenges or struggles. They’re just not showing them to you.
You know that, though. Deep down I believe you’re aware that nobody’s life is perfect, yet, you cannot stop comparing your “behind the scenes” with their “highlight reel,” and it’s starting to take a toll on your mental health.
You’re feeling insecure, unworthy, unattractive, and unsuccessful — but not because of your life, because of how you…