Image from @TOMFORD on Instagram, MET Gala 2021

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5 Lessons In Confidence And Style From Tom Ford’s MET Gala Look

Always done right.

James Michael Sama
8 min readSep 16, 2021

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What’s a love and relationship writer doing writing about fashion?

Something most people don’t know is that I got my “start” giving advice online on forums and message boards where guys were discussing the best ways to attract women — much of which was focused on how to (or not to) dress.

I’ve always believed that our personal style is a reflection of how we see ourselves. It sends a message of who we believe we are — and who we want others to believe we are — without us needing to speak.

This isn’t just about fashion, it’s about the relationship we have with ourselves and how we choose to express it to others.

Tom Ford has always been one of my favorite designers, partially because of how he, himself, carries and presents…well, himself.

I believe that we can learn multiple lessons in, not just style, but confidence, from this one single Tom Ford look at this year’s MET Gala, seen in this Instagram photo from the @TOMFORD Instagram page:

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

I help you evolve into the ultimate version of yourself. Life & Executive Coach. Multi #1 writer. Trusted by: CNN, CNBC, NY Post, CBS, more. Say hi! @JamesMSama

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