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5 Ways To Be The Man Every Woman Is Looking For
You don’t need to be the perfect man to make her happy, just be the man you said you were when you first met her.
We often find ourselves overwhelmed with all of dating’s “do’s and don’ts”, but at the end of the day it’s just about finding balance and chemistry. Here are five important pieces of that puzzle.
1. Be adventurous, but also stable.
Stability does not have to be boring, and adventure does not have to uproot your entire life. Many relationships get stale because there is no excitement left, no thrill, no passion — and much of that fades because routine takes over and we become complacent.
2. Challenge her, but also support her.
Men and women have naturally different strengths due to biological evolution. Our neurological makeup is different and we therefore see and approach things differently.
For that reason, we may see things that she doesn’t, and vice versa. The female brain is better at anticipating pain and detecting danger, so perhaps instead of thinking women are just being #emotional and overreacting, we should pay attention to something she might be seeing before us.
