6 Ways To Keep Improving Your Dating Life While On Lockdown

James Michael Sama
5 min readMar 20, 2020

Just because the world slows down, doesn’t mean your chances of finding love have to.

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Well, this is a new one. How are you supposed to date when everything is closed and you’re supposed to stay 6 feet away from everyone?

I understand your pets are happy that you’re quarantined or locked down, but it doesn’t really do wonders for meeting the man or woman of your dreams.

The good news is, there is still plenty you can do to keep, or get, the ball rolling:

1. Use this time to really define what you want (and need).

The last thing you (or your partner) wants is to get into a relationship that isn’t right. Most of us don’t really sit down and take the time to understand the true driving forces behind the attributes and qualities we want in someone.

I’m talking about uncensored self reflection. Truth not influenced by anyone around you. Your solitary thoughts about what you know is truly important to you, and what isn’t.

Write a list — and equate the things you want with the things you need. Dig deeper into the “why” you want each individual thing, and use that as your guiding light.

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James Michael Sama

I help you evolve into the ultimate version of yourself. Life & Executive Coach. Multi #1 writer. Trusted by: CNN, CNBC, NY Post, CBS, more. Say hi! @JamesMSama