7 Signs You’re Not Ready For Love (Yet)

Maybe you just need some “me” time.

James Michael Sama
6 min readMar 23, 2022

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One of the things I love about being a professional coach is the wide variety of people I have the honor of coaching all over the world.

CEOs, athletes, high-performing executives, entrepreneurs…you name it. Yet, I noticed a trend over the years that they all shared in common.

They’d come to me for clarity around their love life, but eventually have the realization that they’re not even ready to find love (yet).

They needed to, sometimes for the first time in their lives, work on themselves, first.

I always give major kudos to anyone who’s willing to look within and know that they need to cultivate self love first, but it’s a hard thing to recognize sometimes.

Here are some signs that you’re just not quite ready for love (yet)…

1: This is the first time you’ve been single IN A LONG TIME.

I’m talking about — years, or even decades.

Some people tend to jump from relationship to relationship so quickly that they forget what it’s even like to be single.

But, I like being in a relationship! They’ll say.

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

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