7 Things To Do Today If You’re Looking For A Relationship

Things won’t change if things don’t change!

I think one of the things holding people back from finding the relationship they deserve is that they’re not quite sure what steps to take in order to find it in the first place.

If you’re single but tired of it, what are some shifts you can take — both in action and perspective — to increase your chances of success in dating?

1: Remember where your value comes from.

One of the biggest challenges I hear from my private students is that their frustrations in dating make them feel less confident in themselves.

First thing’s first — remember that every single ounce of value you have as a person comes from within. It never comes from other people’s opinions, your dating life, or even your family life. You, as you are today, are worthy of love and happiness — but if you forget that, or begin to doubt it, your actions will reflect a lower standard than you should be holding for yourself.

And, we all know what happens when you lower your standards — people who don’t actually deserve you begin to slip through the cracks and into your life.