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8 Rare Traits Good Men Should Be Proud Of

Let’s bring back honor, integrity, and respect.

James Michael Sama
14 min readMar 11, 2024

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Since day one of my writing journey more than a decade ago, I always pledged to “stay in my own lane.” That is, to never write about things I didn’t have direct experience with, nor that I wouldn’t strive every day to achieve myself.

This is why, prior to getting married or having kids, well, I never wrote about marriage or parenting.

Through the past decade, I’ve grown and changed immensely (as I hope we all have), and as a result, my philosophies and ideas have come along for the ride.

Some, however, have simply been reinforced by putting them into practice to see if they were viable “in real life.”

In this article, I’m going to distill 8 areas of a man’s life that I believe he should take pride in — many of which we’ve lost sight of over the years, particularly as our social landscape has shifted underneath us.

Oh, and, I usually like to make the “it goes both ways” disclaimer before diving into these topics:

We all know that many of these points apply to women, as well. People will go right to the comments and say “this goes for women, too…” as they always do.

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

I help you evolve into the ultimate version of yourself. Life & Executive Coach. Multi #1 writer. Trusted by: CNN, CNBC, NY Post, CBS, more. Say hi! @JamesMSama

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