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9 Uncomfortable Truths About Why You’re Not Finding Love

Are you sabotaging your own happiness?

James Michael Sama
10 min readMay 8, 2024

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I know, you’re frustrated. Dating — in fact — is one of those topics that seems to produce audible groans from an entire room. Ugh, it’s exhausting!

And, it really can be. You spend hours swiping, too much money and time getting ready for dates that go nowhere, or even months getting to know someone only to find out they’ve just been wasting your time.

Understanding that what I’m about to say might piss you off a little bit, but, it’s that (necessary) honesty that my clients hire me for.

Sometimes, it’s your fault.

No — it’s never your fault if someone ghosts you, or treats you badly, or lies to you to get your attention.

However, some people are guilty of sabotaging their own dating lives without even realizing it. You may not be doing it on purpose, you might just some shifts in your mindset that empower you to make better decisions and attract better people.

What, then, are some things you might (or might not) be doing that are holding you back from finding love?

1: You give up before you even get started.

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

I help you evolve into the ultimate version of yourself. Life & Executive Coach. Multi #1 writer. Trusted by: CNN, CNBC, NY Post, CBS, more. Say hi! @JamesMSama

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