James Michael Sama
@JamesMSama and @RaeTheWarrior

The above subtitle is an old quote that’s been circulated millions of times, odds are you’ve seen it before.

Being a male is a matter of birth, being a man is a matter of age, but being a gentleman is a matter of choice.

That choice to be a gentleman…

We’re in the throes of the holiday season, which means that more people than usual are taking the time to reflect on how the past year has gone, and what hopes they’ve got for the year to come.

If “Finding love” is on your “to-do” list for 2022 (or the…

I believe many of the challenges in relationships today are rooted in focusing on the wrong things when choosing a partner.

The traits and qualities that make for a great spouse or life partner are often overlooked, unrecognized, or completely missed altogether.

Let’s explore 9 of the things that we…

@JamesMSama, @RaeTheWarrior, Rosabella (6), and Liliana (2)

I’ve been very public over the past couple of years about my journey from bachelor to family man.

Before I met Rachel, I wasn’t even really sure if I wanted to have children — let alone if I could see myself as a…dad.

It wasn’t long ago that I was…

@JamesMSama by @N.H._Automotive

How many people do you think are capable of more than they’re currently doing? Odds are, the first person who came to mind reading that was yourself.

We all share the frustration of knowing that we are capable of so much more, yet we cannot seem to actually create or…

The wishes of millions of women would come true if the brains of heterosexual men instantly evolved to have the desire and ability to express thoughts and emotions clearly and concisely.

Until then, though, not all hope is lost.

While not all men communicate their feelings verbally, there are still…

I was recently speaking to a woman who’s the CEO of a large marketing firm, owns a restaurant, is in great shape, and has two loving kids…

Yet — cannot find a man who wants to be her equal partner.

I think men often look at women like this and…

@RaeTheWarrior and @JamesMSama

I think one of the cracks in the armor of the heart is low standards, and loose boundaries.

What I mean by that is: We simply accept too much of other people’s crap.

Maybe we’re lonely, or maybe we don’t think we can do any better, or maybe we just…

James Michael Sama

Coach | Writer | Speaker helping you create deeper fulfillment & love. Trusted by: CNN, CNBC, NY Post, CBS, more. Say hello! @JamesMSama | JamesMSama.com

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