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James Michael Sama

We all need a boost now and then.


Is it real love, or just infatuation?

1: Would I change my lifestyle for them?


The uncensored truth.

1: It doesn’t solve your problems.


“Try not to become a man of success, but rather try to become a man of value.” — Albert Einstein


@RaeTheWarrior and @JamesMSama

Stop giving your heart to people who haven’t earned it.

1: He will invite you on a proper date.


@RaeTheWarrior and @JamesMSama

The small things matter most.

Here are 30 small, everyday, often-overlooked things that can make a big statement in showing that you care.

1: Sew your wild oats FIRST.


The most important relationship you’ll ever have is with yourself.


Image from @TOMFORD on Instagram, MET Gala 2021

Always done right.

This isn’t just about fashion, it’s about…


You know, for when you need to talk face-to-face instead of Zoom calls.

1: They put their phone away.


Trust must be earned, and then it must be maintained.

Trust is one of the most overlooked but also most valuable aspects of any personal or professional relationship. Earning it is easier than you think, if you just remember that everyone is a human being.

James Michael Sama

Top 5 Love & Relationship writer. 38 million+ Views on JamesMSama.com. Speaker and coach helping you live a limitless life. Say hello! @JamesMSama

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