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A Man’s Internal Thoughts When Considering Marriage

What he’s really asking himself…

James Michael Sama
6 min readApr 17, 2024

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Choosing a life partner is, arguably, the most important decision any of us will ever make. This person is going to be by our side every single day through the ups and downs, trials and tribulations, failures and victories, wins and losses, and everything in between.

The questions outlined below, of course, aren’t relevant to a more casual relationship or a “fling.” Instead, they’re designed to determine whether or not the person you’re with is truly right for you in terms of compatibility and alignment when it comes to the things that really matter.

The answers to these questions can fundamentally change the course of your life forever, so they are not to be taken lightly.

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Let’s explore:

1: Is there a foundation of friendship?

Many men recoil at the idea of being friends with a woman because of past trauma from being friend-zoned. I know I…

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

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