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Change These 5 Things If You’re Not Finding Love

Stop repeating the same mistakes over and over and over…

James Michael Sama
7 min readApr 19, 2022

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If you’ve found yourself hitting dating dead ends, it might be time to re-evaluate your strategy. Here are some adjustments you just might need to make:

1: The places you’re spending your time.

One of the main complaints I get from clients these days is “I just cannot meet anyone new!”

Which, let’s be real, is understandable. We are all increasingly involved in our phones, many people are working from home now, and, to be hyper-timely, most social events and venues are just now opening back up.

However, this complaint existed long before the pandemic.

It’s hard enough to make new friends as an adult, let alone find an actual human you’re interested in building a relationship or life with.

But, naturally, whenever I hear this complaint I dive deeper into the real question at hand: “If you’re not meeting new people, where are you spending your free time?”

Inevitably the answer(s) come down to:

Well, I go out to dinner with friends on the weekend.

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

I help you evolve into the ultimate version of yourself. Life & Executive Coach. Multi #1 writer. Trusted by: CNN, CNBC, NY Post, CBS, more. Say hi! @JamesMSama

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