Don’t Trust Someone Who Does These 8 Things

Trust is a privilege that must be earned.

Ah, trust — the cornerstone of every type of relationship we’ll ever have. Trust serves as the foundation of respect, of admiration, of friendship, of LOVE. We cannot build a solid professional, personal, or intimate connection with a person whom we don’t implicitly trust.

How, though, do we know if we can really trust someone? How do we know if their words can be believed or not? How do we know if we’re being…used?

Below, I’ll outline a few red flags to look for when determining whether or not someone is actually deserving of your trust.

1: They take YOUR support, but never give THEIRS.

You’re a loving, caring, genuine, and giving person…and you’re damn proud of it! These are amazing qualities to have, and help for you to build deep and meaningful connections with the people around you.

The people in your life know that you’ll always be there for them. They call you, text you, meet for coffee or a drink…and fill you in on all of their personal happenings, or seek your counsel.

The person you’re dating does the same. Trusted work colleagues do the same.