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Everything A Man Needs to Know About Planning a Dinner Date

She said yes…now what?

James Michael Sama
15 min readApr 27, 2022

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The art of the dinner date is one that few take the time to master. In fact, dating in general has become more like the wild wild west than ever before.

For those who hold themselves to a higher standard, though, there are points of etiquette to be followed during the course of the evening that set you apart from the more…ravenous…pack of wolves.

Plus, if your intention is to court a lady, you must show up like a gentleman.

Below you will find the ultimate step by step guide to planning a dinner date, from beginning to end.

A few years ago I would’ve been adamant about my suggestion to pick your date up from her home, but many women are uncomfortable with the idea of meeting someone for the first time at their front door — so while I still believe it is polite to offer, you should graciously accept either a yes or a no equally.

Whether you’re picking her up or meeting at the restaurant, the following points of etiquette apply just the same.

Plan ahead.

A gentleman makes reservations.

With apps like OpenTable, this is easier than ever. Many restaurants are available on OpenTable where you can view…

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

I help you evolve into the ultimate version of yourself. Life & Executive Coach. Multi #1 writer. Trusted by: CNN, CNBC, NY Post, CBS, more. Say hi! @JamesMSama

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