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Having Sex 3 Times Per Day Transformed Our Relationship

It gets better every day.

James Michael Sama
7 min readOct 30, 2021

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First thing’s first — this article is being written not only with the permission of, but the encouragement of Rachel. Anyone who follows my writing knows that I don’t divulge personal details about my/our sex life because I believe some things are best left behind closed doors.

This article won’t betray that — you won’t find steamy details about what we do or any visual illustrations beyond the title image — sorry.

What we will discuss is how, after nearly two years together and two kids in the house, we have lit our sex life on fire and it has infinitely strengthened our relationship.

Keeping the flame alive with busy lives, bustling schedules, and kids in the house can be a challenge — as any parents will understand. For me, coming into this relationship from “the bachelor life,” it required a lot of adjustments to understand that and to find a balance.

We’ve gone through a variety of phases while we found the groove here, some of which were better than others.

Perhaps you’re in a similar position where you’re having a hard time finding the time or energy to prioritize intimacy with your partner. Let me just say that you need to find a way.

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

I help you evolve into the ultimate version of yourself. Life & Executive Coach. Multi #1 writer. Trusted by: CNN, CNBC, NY Post, CBS, more. Say hi! @JamesMSama

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