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How To Build Unshakable Trust In Yourself

10 actionable steps you can take today.

James Michael Sama
12 min readFeb 9, 2024

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Instincts are powerful and important guides along the road of life. They serve as an internal compass, a slight whispering, a gentle tug towards the direction that, deep down, you know you should be moving in.

Why, then, do you have such a hard time trusting them?

Trust, as referenced in the title, is the overarching theme here. Just like we need to build and maintain trust with a partner in a relationship, we must also do so with ourselves. It’s not something that just magically appears, or that is there by default, or that is infallible and bulletproof.

Let’s discuss how you can build — or rebuild — the highest level of trust in the person it matters with most: Yourself.

1: Set attainable goals for yourself and achieve them.

Start small. Trusting yourself is about building credibility with yourself. If you can’t prove yourself to yourself while doing the small things, you’re certainly not going to have any confidence in the big things.

The people who hold the highest level of trust in themselves have built it over time through showing their own abilities. They know they’re capable of what they’re about to do, because…

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

I help you evolve into the ultimate version of yourself. Life & Executive Coach. Multi #1 writer. Trusted by: CNN, CNBC, NY Post, CBS, more. Say hi! @JamesMSama

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