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How To Elevate Your Social Status

It’s not about being noticed — it’s about being remembered.

James Michael Sama
9 min readOct 28, 2024

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Disclaimer: This article is not for everyone. Not everyone wants to be noticed, or remembered, or to leave an impression. If none of this interests you, I won’t be offended if you close this window.

But for those who it does, whether it be to have a better dating life, excel in your career, grow a brand or business, enter the public or political sphere, or simply to grow stronger relationships with people, then this is for you.

Being remarkable — memorable for the right reasons — has many benefits. If you run a business or provide a service, people will call the person they remember when they need you. If you’re actively dating, being memorable will help you stand out in the crowd. Considering getting into politics or joining a board? Good luck being taken seriously if nobody can remember you.

So, what are the key components of making a lasting impression?

1: Treat everyone like your best friend.

I believe that people are craving connection now more than ever. This was true before the pandemic, and even more so now as we have been further isolated with each other in both work and play.

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

I help you evolve into the ultimate version of yourself. Life & Executive Coach. Multi #1 writer. Trusted by: CNN, CNBC, NY Post, CBS, more. Say hi! @JamesMSama

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