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How to Make a Woman Feel Truly Loved
The small things really do matter the most.
Every man’s goal in a relationship should be to maximize the happiness of his partner. Challenges arise because we’re never really taught how to do this, or even how to ask how to do it.
For those who feel uncertain in this area, this article is for you.
1: See her for who she really is.
She has gone her entire life being compared to (and comparing herself to) other people. Whether it’s her appearance, or level of success, or feeling pressured to get married, or start a family…women face an immense amount of pressure and judgment from the world around them.
This is one of the many areas where you must show her that those things don’t reflect who she is at the core. Her values, beliefs, her moral code…the things she holds dear to her heart.
She’s wishing that someone is going to see through the fog and not care about that crooked tooth, or her hair being thinner than she’d like, or that she’s already past the age when she thought she’d be married…
None of those things are reason to love her…or not love her.
Seeing her for the woman she is underneath it all…the most raw and unfiltered version of her…that is the…