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I Couldn’t Attract The Right Woman Until I Became The Right Man
True love stories start from within.
Our unique and dynamic personal journeys through our lives are tightly intertwined with our view of ourselves. Our perceived — and created — identities that drive the decisions we make on a daily basis.
In other words, the way you see yourself directly influences the ways that you interact with the world around you.
Conflict happens when the result we’re expecting, or the actions we’re taking, are out of alignment with the vision we have of (and for) ourselves.
Take, for example, someone who calls themselves an athlete but never trains. Their actions are out of alignment with their identity, and they’ll feel internal conflict as a result.
This reality serves up a dose of truth for those who try to “fake it ’til you make it,” because you might be able to fool others — but you can’t fool yourself.
You’ll always know that your actions are just, well…an act, and aren’t reflective of the person you really are.
When it comes to attracting a potential life partner, calamity occurs under these circumstances.
People are drawn to a made up or false version of you, and eventually get disappointed when the truth…
