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Implement These 5 Daily Habits For Stronger Relationships
The most important relationship you’ll ever have is with yourself.
Material items are not the only things people search for in order to fill an emotional gap. Perhaps even more common is the search for a partner in order to accomplish the same goal. Not surprisingly, this is an equally ineffective method. Maybe even worse.
In over 10 years in the personal development industry, I can tell you that a lot of people are searching for answers to the wrong questions.
We look for information on what we should do to find said relationship. Where can we go? What should we say? How should we dress? What dating apps are best? Everyone has a different reason for wanting to be in a relationship, but I don’t believe it’s something that should be pursued to solve a problem in your life, because that’s not how relationships work.
A relationship is to be attracted by the person you work to become.
Clarity around an identity and purpose is not dependent on your relationship status. You can be single, married, actively dating, hell, you can even be “consciously coupled” if you want. This is all about you as an individual. That’s the whole point.