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Men Melt When They Hear These 15 Phrases

A little bit goes a long way.

James Michael Sama
11 min readNov 10, 2022

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When we think of romance, we (understandably) think of all of the things men do for women. As someone who’s spent the past 10+ years writing and speaking about how men should step up for the women in their lives, I am also acutely aware of the ways that men’s needs must be met, as well.

Particularly because, well, I am one.

I’ve said it for years in the media and also to my private coaching clients: Guys need to put in more effort. They need to step up to the plate and put more effort, time, and energy into showing women that they care.

And, they should never do any of this for the sake of a return.

The fact is, though, that even the most selfless and kindhearted man will begin to feel taken for granted if his efforts are not reciprocated.

Great relationships, after all, aren’t about give and take…they’re about give and give.

The good news is: Men are pretty simple. We don’t require much in the way of your efforts, which means that a little bit (in the context of this article; a few key phrases) will go a long way in making him feel loved and appreciated.

Spoiler alert: If you’re here looking for sexual phrases to “turn your guy on,” you’re in the

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

I help you evolve into the ultimate version of yourself. Life & Executive Coach. Multi #1 writer. Trusted by: CNN, CNBC, NY Post, CBS, more. Say hi! @JamesMSama

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