Men Who Avoid Commitment Say These 10 Things

Don’t ignore the red flags.

All too often, we get caught up in the excitement of meeting someone new, and overlook (or intentionally ignore) red flags.

Some of these red flags wave so brightly in front of our faces that it’s a wonder we completely missed them.

If a guy starts feeding you these lines, what he’s really saying is:

“I’m not looking for commitment right now.”

Or…

“I’m not interested.”

1: “I’m not sure what I want right now.”

There’s an old saying that goes:

Lack of a response is still a response.

The truth is that men pursue what (and who) they want. Saying he “isn’t sure” what he wants is just him trying to provide a bit of grey area to prevent giving a hard answer.

If he wants to be with you, you will know it. If he doesn’t, you’ll always be left wondering what his vague answers mean.

Let him go, and find someone who is certain about you.

2: “My life is really crazy right now.”

Sure, he has a lot going on in his life — but so do you.