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Proven Strategies For Building Strong Self-Love
The most important relationship you’ll ever have is with yourself.
Material items are not the only things people search for in order to fill an emotional gap.
Perhaps even more common is the search for a partner, thinking that getting into a relationship will finally make us happy. Placing our internal happiness on external factors, however, is rarely a recipe for success.
Where can we go to find this magical solution to all of our problems? What should we say? How should we dress? What dating apps are best?
Everyone has a different reason for wanting to be in a relationship, but I don’t believe it’s something that should be pursued to solve a problem, because that’s not what relationships are for. It also saddles the relationship itself with pressure and expectation.
The love you deserve is to be attracted by the person you work to become.
Clarity around an identity and purpose is not dependent on your relationship status. You can be single, married, actively dating, hell, you can even be “consciously coupled” if you want. This is all about you as an individual. That’s the whole point.