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The 11 Point Guide to Being an Even Better Partner

How can we, as men, be the best possible partner to the woman in our life? What are the best ways that we can make her feel supported and cared for? It’s not as much of a mystery as it seems.

This article is an expansion on The 10 Point Guide to Becoming a More Attractive Man and is written to help you gain a clearer understanding around how to be the partner who will make her feel safe, secure, loved, and cared for.

1: Accept her strength without being threatened by it.

2: Show her she can be open and vulnerable with you.

If she can’t do this, nothing else will matter.

3: Understand time spent is more valuable than money spent.


Romance and courtship should not be reserved for the ‘honeymoon phase’ of a relationship. They should not fade over time, but increase as she becomes a bigger and more important part of your life.

5: Make her laugh.

6: Be trusting.

7: Be someone she can trust in return.

8: Show her she’s desired.

9: Be reliable.

10: Be open, honest, and authentic with your communication.

11: Love and accept her for who she truly is.

She wants you to love and accept her as she is while you support her as she grows into the woman she wants to be.

Because after all, when you truly love someone, everything about them automatically becomes beautiful.

Which of these is most important to you? What did I miss? Tell me in the comments!

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International speaker, writer, & adviser helping you build happier relationships. Seen: CNN, CNBC, NY Post, CBS, more. 38 million+ views.

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