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The 15 Point Guide To Becoming A Man Of Value

“Try not to become a man of success, but rather try to become a man of value.” — Albert Einstein

James Michael Sama
12 min readNov 3, 2024

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What does it mean to be a man of “value,” as Einstein once put it? The answers to this question have evolved over the generations as the role(s) of men in society have changed and altered due to shifting expectations, views of masculinity, and gender roles in heterosexual relationships.

I am publicly open about my (albeit controversial) opinion that boys and men are lacking positive influence from role models in today’s “mainstream.” They’re not quite sure where they fit, what’s expected of them, or how to conduct themselves in many social situations.

As women out-pace men in educational and professional fields, men are facing an identity crisis as they no longer are expected to be the provider or protector, as was the case in our parents’ or grandparents’ generations (and long before).

I believe this provides an opportunity for growth in today’s boys and men. How can we build more varied, empathetic, supportive, and emotionally connected boyfriends, husbands, fathers, sons, brothers, and friends?

Here are some essential life skills that I believe every modern man should…

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

I help you evolve into the ultimate version of yourself. Life & Executive Coach. Multi #1 writer. Trusted by: CNN, CNBC, NY Post, CBS, more. Say hi! @JamesMSama

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