The Civilized Man’s Guide to Manners and Etiquette

For those who hold higher standards.

James Michael Sama
11 min readSep 23, 2024

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Manners, etiquette, and common courtesy. Three things that go a long way in building relationships in all areas of life — yet, seem to be fading from “civilized” society.

Below, we’ll discuss points of etiquette relevant to elevating various areas of your everyday life. Dating. Success. Communication. Confidence building. Integrity. Honor. Respect.

1: Give up your seat.

Whether on a bus or on a crowded subway, giving up your seat to another is a rare but genuine sign of respect. When I used to take public transportation to an office in the city, I’d cringe every time a young, strapping man was so distracted by his phone that he never noticed the people around him who could’ve used his seat far more than he.

Call me old fashioned, but I believe that an elderly person, a pregnant woman, someone with a ton of bags, or simply a weary traveler should be given consideration over a person who simply does not feel like standing up.

It all comes down to being aware of your surroundings and acting accordingly — something sorely lacking in a perpetually distracted society.

2: Walk on the street side of the sidewalk.

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

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