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The Dating Advice Everyone Needs (But Nobody Wants)
To attract “the one” you must first become “the one.”
Dating is difficult. There are a lot of people out there who don’t (or can’t) properly communicate, who aren’t looking for real commitment, or who aren’t even sure what a healthy relationship looks like at this point.
Dating apps are frustrating, messages don’t get answered, or someone completely falls off the map after a few days of chatting.
The pandemic has made going out and meeting random people at events or bars awkward and uncomfortable (for some).
So, what then, is the solution?
In order to create different results in our lives we must begin by taking different action. Making different decisions. Approaching the world with a different perspective.
After all, things don’t change if things don’t change.
So I’m going to challenge you to adopt this mindset from here on out:
We don’t attract what we desire, we attract what we project.
Instead of asking “Who am I looking for?” ask yourself “Who am I working to become?
Single life often comes along with so-called “advice” from friends and family like…
