The High-Value Man’s Dating Rulebook

Everything you need, nothing you don’t.

Luck, strategy, or both? How is it that the men who attract the woman of their dreams into their life actually do it? Is it a matter of luck, circumstance, randomly being in the right place at the right time?

Or — is it something more deliberate and intentional?

Here’s what I think the truth is: It’s a split between the two that favors the conscious and purposeful preparation for the right circumstances to align.

In other words: You need to be ready for her to arrive in your life when she does, otherwise you’ll miss your shot no matter how well the stars are aligned.

How, then, do you get ready?

1: Get clear on your own identity.

I often save this point for the end of an article but I’m starting out with it here because, without it, nothing else is going to help you.

Clarity around one’s identity requires an immense amount of inner work and courage to achieve.

Courage because it calls you to be honest and unfiltered in your assessment of yourself. To really reflect on the life you’re living, the values and beliefs you hold, the career path you’ve chosen, and the people you’re spending your…