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The Lost Balance Of Masculine And Feminine

Let’s ruffle some feathers, shall we?

James Michael Sama
9 min readMar 15, 2024

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First of all: This is an open forum. Civilized discussion in the comments is encouraged. I’ve been in the “relationship industry” for nearly two decades as an author, speaker, and coach — but that does NOT make me an expert, nor have I ever claimed to be.

What it does make me, though, is deeply immersed in conversations on the topic with thousands of people from all over the world quite regularly.

What I’m about to outline below is based on my personal opinions, personal experiences, and conversations with countless clients and friends which all seem to reinforce the forthcoming ideas.

There are also in-depth scientific sources linked for your review, which are quite fascinating.

The point here is to open up what I believe is a much needed conversation around the frustrations so many face in dating and relationships and uncover some ways that we can move forward in better harmony.

Let’s begin by making sure we’re speaking the same language.

In the context of this conversation, “masculine” and “feminine” refer to energies. Ways of being. It does not mean “strong” or “weak,” or “better” and “worse.”

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James Michael Sama
James Michael Sama

Written by James Michael Sama

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